10 Negative Statements About Your Weight loss

Losing weight is an exciting time. You have met your goals and sometimes exceeded them. You are proud of your new look and health evaluation. You enjoy your new size. Not so fast. There are 10  negative statements I am about to share with you about your weight lost.

1. You will get told, you looked better with the weight.
2. People will suspect you of using drugs or alcohol.
3. You will get asked are you sick.
4. You will get told, you will gain it all back.
5. You will be told, don't lose too much.
6. You will get told you are too skinny.
7. You will have wrinkles if there was a lot of weight loss.
8. You will be scrutinized, for everything you eat. People will intentionally try to tempt you with unhealthy food choices,
9. Family and close friends may get jealous.
10. Family can be the most negative when it comes to weight loss.           

    Now, with all of that being said. 

You look Great! 

Be prepared not everyone will be happy for your weight loss. 

There will be whispers and hurtful statements.

Dealing with health issues is harder than dealing with negative people.

No one else can carry your burden of dealing with weight, either mentally or physically.

Don't  gain the weight back to please others.

You lost the weight to benefit you !

Remember, jealousy gains weight when people lose weight.

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Black Girls mantra

Society exposes black girls to more ridicule about their persona than any other ethnicity. Black girls, here are some verbal gifts for you to use and remember throughout your childhood and when you become a black woman.
Black Girl
Wear your course curly hair with pride and admiration. Nurture your hair as if it was a delicate flower growing in a botanical garden.
Black girl
 Your full lips should speak eloquently, lifting others with gifts of encouragement, wisdom and love.  May your full lips give words of kindness.

Black Girl

Never compare your full figured body to the slim physique of other ethnic groups. You are more than your voluptuous hips and thighs. Let NO boy or man, treat you with disrespect. Allow men to lift you up and grant you comfort in times of trouble. Allow men to treat you as a queen and never as a peasant.

Black Girl 
Sometimes, in this society you may appear animated. Don't allow societal labels define you. You will   try to voice your opinion to a society which doesn't appreciate your vitality. Voice your opinion Black Girl. Allow no one, to tear you down or be dismissive towards you. Your animation belongs to you, get your point across.
Black Girl
You are not a forth-class citizen. You are a citizen with rights. You have opinions. You are not less than. You are above.
Black Girl
You are as human as people of other hues. Your hue is not who you are. Your hue is the gift wrap for the gift on the inside of you. The inside is who you truly are. The inside really matters. Let no one look at the shade of your wrapping an accuse you of not being a precious gift of significance.
Black Girl
Let NO ONE, NO ONE tear down your self esteem, or your self worth. Love your self, love your body Love your mind.
Black Girl 
Feed your mind with knowledge from all cultures. Focus on your education and knowledge every day.Your weapon in life will be your education. The more knowledge you have the bigger your weapon.
Black Girl
Society may compare you to the worst human ARE NOT THE WORST HUMAN. You are human with many shades of hues; you are a human which cares; you are a human with both sympathy and empathy.


Black Girl when you become an adult give your black girls' verbal gifts of love.

Verbal gifts are free.
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Achieve Your Goals.

Purchase a small pocket-size journal for your IT. write in your journal daily. Write ways to achieve IT. Write the path you would like to take to achieve IT. Accomplish IT your way. Chose a time limit to accomplish the steps you have written.

Achieve your goals your way.

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