The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. Sun Tzu

An enemy doesn't have to be people at physical war.An enemy can be any person which opposes or is hostile towards a a thought or action.The best way to defeat any enemy is with self control,a tamed  tongue and patience.It is written,"Don’t be quick-tempered—that is being a fool".7:9 The Living Bible(TLV).
 Rifts in families,relationships both personal and business can  be eliminated through communication.Effective communication requires all parties involve to actively listen, asking clarifying questions,watching body language and facial expressions and both parties coming to a reasonable agreement.It is also written,"Listening to wise people increases your knowledge, but only nonsense comes from the mouths of fools."Proverbs 15:2 Easy to read version(ERV). 
  Ignoring a problem doesn't make the problem go away.It can sometimes grow into a much larger problem, This is why some family secrets gets worst over years. 
Relationships begin to break down through lack of communication and selfishness.Relationships requires including the well being of all parties involved.Relationships requires compromises,the only physical actions should be a hug,kiss or hand shake.
 Above all pray together for a answer to keep the relationship in tack.Without prayer none of the above will work for everyone. 

Pray for relationships
ChocHands 

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